Bernadette Musker, MSc, ACC
Relational Psychotherapist & Therapeutic Coach
Offering Individual & Relationship Coaching
Break Free from the Hamster Wheel: Empowering Midlife Professionals to Live a Life of Purpose and Fulfillment
Are you tired of feeling trapped in a career that’s sucking the life out of you? Do you yearn for a life that’s authentic, exciting, and fulfilling?
As a relational psychotherapist and therapeutic coach, I’ve been in your shoes. I know the pressure, the stress, and the disillusionment that comes with chasing success at any cost. But I also know the transformative power of breaking free from the cycle and living a life that truly reflects your values and passions.
My journey began in the City of London, where I experienced firsthand the highs and lows of corporate life. But it was a pivotal moment of self-discovery that sparked a deep desire for change. I realized that many professionals like myself are stuck in a ‘hamster wheel’ of responsibilities, chasing after goals that no longer resonate with their true selves.
That’s why I’m dedicated to helping midlife professionals like you break free from the cycle and live a life of purpose and fulfillment. Through my work, I create a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and aspirations. Together, we’ll uncover what truly matters to you and develop a path toward a more meaningful and satisfying life.
My approach is grounded in relational therapy, emphasizing the importance of connection and understanding in our own individual journey. I believe that it’s never too late to pursue a life that aligns with your values and passions. Whether you’re seeking clarity, navigating transitions, or looking to cultivate a deeper sense of fulfillment, I’m here to support you every step of the way.
So, are you ready to break free from the hamster wheel and live a life of freedom, fun, and excitement? Book a free 20 min discovery call – what are you waiting for?
MY CAREER JOURNEY
Corporate Life
For 20 years, I thrived in the dynamic world of Financial Services in the City of London as a Project Manager in Fintech. Yet, when the work no longer fulfilled me, and the stress of constant travel and deadlines took its toll, I dared to believe in the possibility of change and greater freedom. Experiencing redundancy twice, I gained firsthand insight into corporate pressures, which fortified my resilience and deepened my understanding of navigating challenges. This journey inspired me to transform my life and now empowers me to support others in embracing their own transformative paths.
The Big Pivot
After nearly 20 years in The City, I embarked on a transformative journey, retraining as a psychotherapist while balancing my full-time career. This experience honed my skills in navigating change and developing resilience. I successfully transitioned from the world of Financial Services to empowering individuals eager to make positive changes in their lives. My journey is a testament to the power of transformation, demonstrating how pursuing one’s passion can lead to meaningful impact and to inspire others to do the same.
Public Sector Years
Working as a therapist in the London Police Service for nearly 10 years helping Police Officers and staff. This involved a great deal of trauma work for front line Police Offices and psychological screening for high risk roles, such as Firearms Officers or those working with sexual abuse victims. I went on to work in Occupational Health within the NHS in secure Mental Health Hospitals like Broadmoor, along with work for many other agencies and charities.
The Big Move
I relocated from London to Dubai, creating a new life while establishing my private practice.
The Evolution
My journey of reinvention led me to transition from being a therapist to embracing the role of a coach, where I now empower others to realize their goals and unlock their true potential. I truly believe that this new chapter is the culmination of my life’s experiences, passions, and skills. It beautifully integrates my therapeutic background with a proactive approach to personal development.
Throughout my life, I have embraced the challenge of living in different countries and have willingly uprooted myself more than once in pursuit of new opportunities. Each transition has been rewarding, reinforcing my belief that while change can be daunting, the sense of fulfillment and the richness of experience it brings are invaluable. Now, I draw on these lessons as I guide others on their own journeys toward growth and self-discovery.
My Experience
With over 20 years of experience in helping individuals overcome inner challenges and reach their potential, I have continually transformed my own life, embracing change to inspire others. I’ve reinvented myself several times and this journey has taught me the challenges and joys of positive change, improving your quality of life and the importance of work-life balance.
I understand the sacrifices required for major life changes, and the joy and pride that come with achieving your goals. Having worked full-time while studying for my qualifications, I am familiar with the struggles this entails, as well as the self-doubt that can accompany significant transitions.
Having lived in different countries and embraced new challenges, I know firsthand the rewards of stepping into the unknown. My experiences empower me to guide others on their transformative journeys, helping them to believe in themselves and succeed.
Over 20 Years Experience and Thousands of Hours of Dedicated Work as a Therapist and Coach
I’ve helped countless individuals and couples transform their lives and relationships. During this time, I’ve encountered many people with aspirations who initially lack the motivation or self-belief to enact change. Witnessing their increased happiness, well-being, and confidence as they make these changes is incredibly rewarding.
I am eager to be part of your journey, supporting you in making difficult life choices and celebrating as you realize your potential. Seeing you become happier and more content is deeply fulfilling and inspires me to continue this meaningful work.
Qualifications
- ACC Accreditted Coach ICF
- Certificate Advanced TA Analysis for Coaching
- MSc Integrative Psychotherapy
- Clinical Diploma Integrative Psychotherapy
- Clinical Diploma Supervision
- EMDR Practitioner Training
- London Diploma Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy
- Mindfulness Teacher Training
- Practitioner Diploma Clinical Hypnosis – LCCH
- Diploma Clinical Hypnosis
- Certificate Clinical Hypnosis
- NLP Master Practitioner – Richard Bandler & Paul McKenna
Professional Memberships
EXTERNAL PERSPECTIVE
Bernadette’s style is empathic and kind, yet focussed and direct. This means she makes you feel comfortable in opening up and discussing the root causes of your issues, but at the same time has the ability to help you dig deeper by asking challenging questions.
My experience with Bernadette was tremendously helpful in providing me with an external perspective on my personal problems, and provided me with tangible and practical interventions that I could utilise straight away.
Her professionalism and style shows how deep her expertise runs in supporting individuals and couples through challenging periods! Thank you for everything, Berndadette!
Let me help you become your authentic self!
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